An archive of the writings of Assanova
Originally posted on: Mar 4, 2011.
In the seduction community, we always hear a lot of talk about alpha males. However, there is one major problem that seems to go overlooked. Everyone just assumes that there is just one type of alpha male and that all alpha males will do well with women in all environments.
If you pay attention, you will see that there are three types of alpha males that can sometimes overlap. There is the standard guy who physically looks like an alpha male. This guy usually does well in environments where he doesn’t have to do a lot of talking. Women just look at him and get turned-on.
Then there is the guy who is an alpha male by status alone. His game may be horrible, he may not be physically attractive, and he may actually behave like a standard beta male, placing women on pedestals. However, this guy will still get women based on his status and or power alone.
Then there are alpha males that resemble guys like me. He doesn’t look like a meathead, so it isn’t so obvious at first. However, he is incredibly witty, and has a cocky, assertive type personality. As such, women don’t realize that he is an alpha male until they’ve spent a fair amount of time talking to him. This would explain why a lot of women don’t think I’m “all that” until they’ve spent some time around me, at which point they start to make their advances on me.
The point of mentioning this? If you are of the wittier intelligent variety that women like, then you need to be gaming in places that play to that advantage. I told you guys how when I did the online dating thing years back, all I had to do was sit and let women message me because I had a very witty profile.
Also when most women start falling head over heels for me, it’s because we are either in an environment that allows conversation minus the loud distractions, or it’s because we started out as friends, and they’ve spent enough time around me to realize that I am of the assertive, wittier, alpha male variety. Think about Freckles, Sex Lips, and a few other girls. They were all wishy-washy about me at first, but in the end, they all made advances on me. Why? Because although I am not a meathead, or super popular anymore, after spending time with my personality, they realized that yes, they were dealing with an alpha male.
With women, there are different kinds of beauty. And each type of beautiful woman will have a group of guys where her type of beauty is most appreciated. And similar to beauty, there are different kinds of alpha; not all alpha males are the same. If you are of the wittier assertive variety, then you are best-suited to pursue women in environments where your wits and assertive personality can be best put to use (hint: not loud, overcrowded nightclubs).