An archive of the writings of Assanova
Originally posted on: Oct 14, 2011.
I’ve had my fair share of one-night stands, and one thing that keeps crossing my mind, is that the vast majority of those girls weren’t the slutty girls that you would imagine them to be. Most of them were women with very little sexual experience, and with the girls I later talked to, most of them admitted to having between three to five sexual partners.
If that is the case with the typical girl, then how could those one-night stands have been so easy for me? It’s because women are desperate for sex. Not only had most of those girls had less than five sexual partners, but they had gone months, some even over a year, without sex. And some of you may recall the story about how I slept with a virgin in under one hour.
Now on to the big question: if women are so desperate for sex, then why are so many of them flaking on men and choosing not to answer their phone calls or go out on dates? It’s because women CONSTANTLY get offers to exchange phone numbers and to go out on dates. And as a result, they have built-up quite a numbness to it, resulting in them being extremely choosey with the men who take the dating angle.
However, what happens when a guy completely bypasses the exchange of phone numbers and the offer of a date? I’ll tell you exactly what happens based on my experiences. If you are attractive, women just go with it, because they just aren’t use to a guy completely bypassing what they are use to other men offering (phone numbers and dates). In other words, women go with it because they are getting a need fulfilled that no men are offering them.
Am I saying that an attractive guy can just walk up to a girl, ask her for sex or grope her, and get it? Absolutely not. However, what I am saying, is that if a girl is feeling a guy’s vibe, if he starts leading her towards sex, she is going to go with it as long as the logistics are handled. And when she is finally alone with him, her sexual impulses are going to take over, especially since she most likely hasn’t had sex in a long time, and thus she is going to easily sleep with him.