An archive of the writings of Assanova
Originally posted on: Feb 22nd, 2012.
I think that everybody knows about my history with white girls, but what a lot of people don’t know about, because I almost never, ever, bring it up, is my history with Asian women. Prior to college, I dated nothing but Asian women. All of my firsts were with Asian women; I had my first kiss with an Asian girl, an Asian girl was the first girl to ever approach me, an Asian girl was my first serious girlfriend, I lost my virginity to an Asian girl, and an Asian girl was the first girl that I ever fell in love with.
As for the reason why you never see me talking to Asian girls anymore, it’s because I’m never really around them, and a couple of bad experiences with crazy Asian girls that I’ve dated involving a flying text book, threats to stab me, and outright stalking me. However, at one point in time I had about 4-5 different Asian girls calling me all the time, whether we were dating or not, and if you were to place an Asian girl next to me, I’d probably go crazy in a very primal way; I just can’t explain it.
With all of that out of the way, a lot of black guys go after white girls, without giving a second thought to Asian women. However, provided that you are an intelligent black guy and not a straight-up thug, an Asian girl is probably a better match for you than a woman of any other race. It’s one of those things that doesn’t seem to make any sense until you try it, and I think it goes both ways. I recently ran into an Asian girl from high school that hated the fact that her cousin was dating a black guy, and the funny thing about it, is that ten+ years later, she now has a black boyfriend.
Why does it make sense for black guys to go after Asian girls? Because I would say that Asian girls are moreso attracted to traits found in black guys than women of any other race. Most Asian girls are extremely feminine, and as such, they are really attracted to guys who are very dominating and masculine. And I’m not just saying it for the sake of it; a lot of the Asian girls that I’ve dated had very dominating parents, so they just naturally fit in with guys who are also very dominating and masculine in general.
Where you would have a white girl or black girl who typically want men that are a little more feminine and not so dominating, a lot of Asian girls actually prefer the dominance and masculinity. Some may even say they don’t like black guys, but like I said, it’s one of those things that they say they don’t like without ever having tried it. There’s probably a lot more chemistry there than you think, and that’s based on personal experience.