An archive of the writings of Assanova
Originally posted on: Feb 16th, 2012.
There is a big debate over at PUA Hate(not safe for work) about whether or not an Indian guy can get an attractive non-Indian woman, which is part of a bigger argument about whether or not an unattractive guy can get a very attractive woman. From the looks of the above photo, and the other photos in the thread, I would place the woman in her late twenties or early thirties. And because of her age, I would say that her legitimately dating that guy is not impossible.
I’ve never really mentioned this, but women aren’t so superficial all of the time. Will an unattractive guy be able to get a very attractive woman when she is young, without the use of drugs or money? Highly unlikely. However, when a woman stops running the nightclub circuit, or the party scene in general, it is very possible for an average, everyday type of guy, to date a very attractive woman.
You probably want to know why. The truth is that once a woman stops running the nightclub circuit, her options with men are incredibly limited. As attractive as some of these girls can be, they have almost no real options, because they spend most of their time at home and at work. Once a woman’s career really gets going, or she feels a little too old to be hanging in nightclubs, or her body can’t quite recover from a long night of drinking the way it use to, she spends a lot of time at home, with the occasional night out with the girls.
I’ve dated a few of these girls, which is no accomplishment, but as attractive as some of them can be, once their nightclub and party life is over, they become incredibly insecure. I’d be lying to you if I told you that I used magical game skills to get them, because for the most part, they pursued me. Not because I am the most attractive guy in the world, but because I just happened to have something going for me, and I had the basics down; I was clean, confident, and could make them laugh. And I happened to be in the right place at the right time.
If you’re an average-looking guy that has himself together, then yes, you can date women that are much more physically attractive than you are, once their party years are over. Once their party years are over, women start thinking about what really matters when it comes to what they want in a man, and they stop being so superficial. However, the chances of you finding one are slim to none. These women do exist, but unless you happen to work with one, or happen to run into one by chance, I wouldn’t count on finding one, seeing that they rarely hang-out in nightclubs.